How To Deal With Fear And Transform It Into Massive Action [DIS #303]

Do you feel sometimes that you are afraid to do something that you know you need to do to succeed? Guess what we all have fears on a daily basis the question is HOW do you deal with fears and how do you TRANSFORM them into massive ACTION to accomplish your goals and dreams and what you want in life IN SPITE OF fear. I want to give you a new perspective on fear that will change everything for you. 

So we all deal with fears whether in our personal lives for example the fear to approach and meet a new person that we like and our hearts are pounding, or the fear to have a difficult conversation and break up with someone.  

What about being in HOME BUSINESS? My goodness lots of fears. 

The fear of shooting a new video and fully expressing yourself, looking directly in the camera and sharing your heart, your vision, your soul, your message openly and transparently and being vulnerable. 

The fear of creating a new webinar, sharing your story and value,  and playing a bigger game.

The fear of speaking in front of thousands of people. 

The fear of picking up the phone and talking to real human beings, connecting your prospects and leads. 

The fear of launching a new product even though it’s by no means perfect. 

What about the fear of quitting your safe and secure cushion job that you tolerate to be able to pay the bills, replacing the cocoon of safety of a paycheck for being a full time entrepreneur and working for profits.

What about the fear of parting with your hard earned cash to INVEST in yourself, to buy a course and to follow a course of action? 

All of those are legitimate fears but they should NOT stop us at all. 

Fear Is Your Greatest Gift

Let me tell you what I learned about FEAR. Fear can be the greatest gift of all to you. How? 

As I attended the workshop by my friend Daniel Ben-Ari called “From Fear To Passion” he is a genius, he told that fear signifies that you are about to step out of your COMFORT ZONE. 

Do you know what lies outside of your comfort zone? Your passion, dreams, energy, enthusiasm, energy, meaning, growth, contribution and being fully ALIVE. 

So what fear simply means is that you are about to do something meaningful. You are about to do something new or something that is not part of who you are fully yet.

Fear means you are going to do something that will make you feel ALIVE again.  

DIS #303: How To Deal With Fear And Transform It Into Massive Action

How I Overcame My Fears

I’m dealing with fears every single day just like you do. I was afraid to quit the University in the last 2 courses that I needed to complete to graduate, it was 4th year, we spent with my mom about $12K on it. Maybe I should have finished the courses I’m not passionate about and go and search for a J.O.B? Why bother building a business from scratch if I had no money, I was broke with $10,000+ in debt, no experience online and nothing. 

But you know what I did quit the University on April 5th, 2014. I was afraid to take a big loan and pursue my dream of earning 6-figure residual income online and have the freedom to live life on my terms without any bosses and job descriptions. I took action anyway! My dream was important to me. My freedom was important to me. 

I was afraid to start recording videos. My English is not my first language. What if I say something totally stupid? What if nobody will like it? What if I will look and sound stupid? What if I make a mistake? People will laugh at me. 

Garbage. I started recording videos and taking action ANYWAY. My dream was important to me. My freedom was important to me. 

I started to record and stopped, started and stopped over and over and over again, catching myself saying something off the topic, stupid, or losing presence, thinking it’s not perfect. 

I still don’t do videos in one take. I battle with my perfectionism. 

I was afraid to host my first webinar. I did it anyway. 

I was afraid to start calling leads and prospects. I did it anyway.

Now I don’t have boss, I do what I want with my time, I have the FREEDOM to afford different choices in life because I have a 6-figure income coming on from the internet to my bank. 

So on the other side lies victory, meaning and LIVING LIFE on your terms. 

Whenever You Feel Afraid Do This…

So whenever you feel afraid of something and you are about to step outside of your comfort zone, remember WHY you are doing this, why it’s so meaningful, why it’s going to move your closer to accomplish your dreams, why you must do it to grow, to learn, to contribute, to be ALIVE. 

Next come back to the present moment, come back to the here and now, and realize it’s all a mind game, it’s all in your head. Fears are just a fiction of your imagination. It’s a thought about something that haven’t even happened. 

In the present moment you can make new decisions and make new choices that will allow you step outside of your comfort zone, expand your comfort zone. 

Most importantly take massive action, take any action right now, even a baby step, to DO something that will move you towards your goals and dreams and shut this fear up. 

More Training on Fear:

DIS #96 – Trust In Yourself And Act In Spite Of Fear

Hope that you are going to take massive action in spite of fear! If you got value feel free to comment below and share with your friends. 

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Vitaliy Dubinin

Vitaliy Dubinin is inspiring and empowering thousands of regular people to leverage the Internet to build a 6-figure income and win their FREEDOM in life. Vitaliy is an entrepreneur, mentor, father and speaker living in Israel with 2 kids. He is traveling 5-7 times a year all over the world and his vision is to FREE 1,000 people per year to live life on their terms. In his free time Vitaliy loves to play table tennis, chess and have with his family.

19 Comments

  • Lynn Brown

    December 5, 2015

    You shared some great tips and strategies Vitaliy for transforming fear into massive action. We can either be driven by fear in a positive way or let it overwhelm us and keep us in our comfort zone. Glad you are sharing such a positive post bringing awareness to what you have done and how it can help others. Great post!

  • Diana M Fitzgerald

    December 3, 2015

    Loved this post Vitaliy! Your energy and enthusiasm is amazingly encouraging. We all face different kinds of fear at different times in our lives and we have to keep pushing on. Thanks for sharing!

  • Dr. Lisa Thompson

    December 3, 2015

    You are such an example of what it takes to overcome fear Vitaliy! And with you energy and enthusiasm you will put the energy drinks out of business…all people need to do is listen to you and they will get a boost! And a healthy one to boot!

    Appreciate you lots dude!

    Dr. Lisa

    • Vitaliy Dubinin

      December 3, 2015

      Hey Lisa thanks, let’s get the energy drinks out of business! Appreciate you!

  • Julie Syl Kalungi

    December 3, 2015

    Whenever you feel fear to take a certain action that you know is good for your business, That means you really must do that cation.

    Indeed Passion and success lies outside of our comfort Zone…Loving your new Video style. You literally slowed it down and have really made the point!
    Fear is the flipside of Faith…self belief its our conscious mind trying to get in the way…we gotta tell it who is boss..the quieter more brave inner spirit rooting for our success…

    Loved it thanks man!

    • Vitaliy Dubinin

      December 3, 2015

      Awesome Julie thanks so much for this, we have this brave inner spirit within us!

  • Mark Nelson

    December 3, 2015

    Man we face fear everyday as an entrepreneur. Just got to look at it and keep moving on

  • Matthew

    December 3, 2015

    Great post and perspective. I don’t like doing videos but I do them anyway.

  • Artur

    December 3, 2015

    Great Video Vitaliy. I needed this tips today, i have some fears about calling prospects. I need to over come this fear. Thank you.

    • Vitaliy Dubinin

      December 3, 2015

      Hey Artur you’re welcome. Go and crush it!

  • Paul Kelly

    December 2, 2015

    Thanks very mutch for sharing this video as I am only new
    its strange teritory for me so between Sotiris,Mike any youself. I will
    get off the ground online and in line with you all.

  • Ron Deering

    December 2, 2015

    Great post on Fear… action cures fear everytime… thanks for sharing this Vitaliy… great value as always… and your energy is addicting..

  • Tara Woodruff

    December 2, 2015

    Great tips on overcoming Fear!! Thank you so much Vitaliy. we all experience it and its time to overcome it 🙂