Why Comparing Yourself To Others Is Killing Your Dreams And Holds You Back From Success

Today I’m going to share with you one of the biggest diseases entrepreneurs have called “Comparitis” and why it’s killing your dreams and holds you back from having the success that you want in your business. 

How do you feel when you hear a success story? When you see that someone is driving a nice BMW, Mercedes Benz or Tesla car , lives in a mansion and making tens of thousands of dollars online?

How do you feel when you see someone is posting an income claim on Facebook about his success and how much money he earned? How do you feel when a leader comes on stage and shares his success story?

Do you feel sad? Depressed? Jelous? Angry? Pissed off? 

Do you say why this person is so successful and I’m not?

How come he is there and I’m here…

If you feel it, you will never ever going to achieve the success that you want in your business. 


Because you cannot become what you despise

It’s not possible. You have an inner conflict.

If you feel like they must have done something unethical, how on earth will you be a success? Cause subconsciously you don’t want to be the bad guy.  

It’s like when you don’t like to see someone sell something to you, how are you going to be able to sell? If you don’t like to buy stuff, how you are going to be able sell? You can’t.

If you find yourself comparing yourself to other people, stop it.  Don’t do it ever again.

Why Comparing Yourself To Others Is Killing Your Dreams And Holds You Back From Success

How You Should Feel About The Other Person Success?

How about being genuinely happy for this person?

How about being grateful for that this person enjoys success?

How about Celebrating people and what they have accomplished and acknowledge them?

How about being inspired and transformed from the inside? 

You can say this person has done it, I can do it too.

Because you never know what this person has gone through to get to the point where he is at. 

You don’t know all the hours he spent practicing, all the money he spent investing in himself. All of the sacrifices he made, all the struggles, all the pain he has gone through. 


You don’t get to hear the backstory…

The only person that you can ever compare yourself to is yourself. 

How better are you today then yesterday? 

Are you improving, are you growing, are you taking action? 

See most people are focused on the lack. They are thinking well I don’t have the $1,000 day yet, I haven’t signed anyone up yet.  

Why not focus on the abundance? Why not focus on what you have done right? Why not focus on 10 leads you already generated?

What about celebrating your own small wins?

You see when you focus on what’s right, on abundance, on celebration, you want to create even bigger wins, and you always looking forward. 

You see how you were a year ago and you will be amazed! 

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Vitaliy Dubinin

Vitaliy Dubinin is inspiring and empowering thousands of regular people to leverage the Internet to build a 6-figure income and win their FREEDOM in life. Vitaliy is an entrepreneur, mentor, father and speaker living in Israel with 2 kids. He is traveling 5-7 times a year all over the world and his vision is to FREE 1,000 people per year to live life on their terms. In his free time Vitaliy loves to play table tennis, chess and have with his family.


  • Karishma

    September 5, 2015

    Great post Vitaliy. I enjoy listening to your videos and reading your posts.

  • kevin pola

    September 5, 2015

    Hi Vitaliy, Great video with excellent content. You are right we need to stop comparing ourselves to other. We are all different! Thanks for sharing. Kevin

  • Jose Sievert

    September 4, 2015

    Thank you Vitaliy! This is very inspiring for any entrepreneur and we should believe in ourselves first and foremost rather than comparing to others!

    • Vitaliy Dubinin

      September 6, 2015

      Hey Jose Sievert that’s awesome right on!

  • Bethan Williams

    September 4, 2015

    Vitality is so inspiring, full of energy , charged up motavatin joy to be in his presence.

  • Ron Deering

    September 4, 2015

    This is so true… so many of us have spent so much time in our lives and our business comparing… it can and will stop you in your tracks if you don’t understand the value that can be there for learning not making us feel useless…. great post Vitaliy… thanks for sharing…

  • Sonny Lanorias

    September 4, 2015

    Hi Vitaliy,

    I really enjoy watching and listening to your videos 🙂 Very cool and inspiring…. some people are just jealous or so called haters… They need stop it (you’re right) and change that mindset. Instead get inspired and think that its possible for you. Love this quote: You cannot become what you despise. Thanks for sharing bro and lets celebrate SUCCESS! Cheers!

    ~ Sonny

    • Vitaliy Dubinin

      September 6, 2015

      Let’s celebrate the success Sonny, right on!